Month: February 2017

When lights go out, and all is dark. 

I begin to wonder has someone new found the key to my heart? 

I lie awake challenging the silence of night, and I toss and turn while searching the depths of a second sight.

I just lie there, concentrating; droning in on the past. 

I cannot help but think how some things aren’t meant to last. 

I wade about the memories, and ride the river of pain, flowing through my soul. 

I think about all the stories I chose to leave untold. 

I think about the present, and what you mean to me? 

I blindly sustain the silence, hoping this darkness will help me to see.

Continue reading “Just a thought”

It seems most or rather a lot of women have read the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman.  Me, never read to be honest I didn’t even know it existed till a few weeks ago.

But don’t worry guys, I got ya backs to save you from having to read the entire book. 

 

Here they are:

Gifts

Acts of service (devotion)

Quality Time

Words of affirmation

Physical touch

Pretty simple huh?  Or are they? Continue reading “What’s your type? Do you know your loved ones??”

This will more than likely be controversial, you will more than likely even hate it maybe even me.  But what it is not is me bashing or putting women down AT ALL.  I actually like & love woman.This is also directed at heterosexual woman who desire to be with a man.  I have nothing against lesbian women, gay men, transgenders or any other titles that are out there.

I believe live & let live.

That being said, let’s get into this. 😉

I’ve done online dating in some form for decades.  I recall when they were little ads in the newspapers. Lol  However after reading literally thousands of profiles of women, I noticed a trend.  Most women want a good man or so it seems.  But what constitutes a good man in the eyes of a woman??

As human beings we all have preferences for everything…. Dating is no different.  But I challenge to you think about this & ask yourself a brutally honest question.  Have my preferences become my standard?

Continue reading “Queen without a King?”

Today in the states, it’s the day deemed to depress most of america… single or a couple.

Why??  Cause it’s Hallmark’s day to get you to spend money & express your love to you loved ones.  But as someone who’s never really bought into what “THEY” say!  Why do they say what i do or don’t do & how I actually should do it.

Have you ever noticed you never got to choose who they are?  I’ve never seen an election or was asked to be on their team.  Yet they have so much power to get people in trouble or make others feel horrible.

14 Feb… Valentine’s day.  Last time I checked there are 365 days in a year.  What about love the rest of the days of the year?  Does one get a free pass on those days long as V-day is remembered?  That, my friends would be a big, fat, juicy NO!!!

Continue reading “Valentine’s Day 2107”

I have seen, but a glimpse of you.

Need to dig deeper to expose the beauty that is left unseen to the naked eye.

It’s all been said before, but rest assured my love it’s still true.

Rejected many times more than I care to imagine, yet I still try.

Emerald green eyes that I can’t help, but stare at.

Mesmerized by the pain that is hidden inside.

A smile only fools, those who choose not to see. 

Sweet baby that is a fact.

Far too many haven’t cherished you. Words can’t express the sorrow I feel for the tears you’ve cried.

Continue reading “OTHER SIDE OF THE LOOKING GLASS”