In a world gone astray… where is the love the knows no bounds?
I mean I get having a preference, but has it become the standard?
Would you rather be alone than be with someone who doesn’t fit every single point on your checklist?
Are you the equal to the person that you want?
If they got you as you are now… would they be settling?
Do you date for love & to make yourself happy?
Or do you date so that you friends approve of your choice?
If it’s the latter why don’t you date your friends?
Aren’t they who you truly want to be happy with your choice?
Are you strong enough to examine your heart & see if you’re lying to yourself?
Do you even know what you want & will it make you happy?
Is it money? How much is enough?
Is it a job? How many hours will you give it to make you fulfilled?
Is it clothes or shoes? How many outfits can you wear in a day, week or year?
How about a car? How much are you willing to spend?
How much do you cost?
Are you for sell to the highest bidder?
Do you give preference to people with money?
Willing to overlook the checklist if they got enough money in the bank?
Do you even like them as a person?
Could you sit next to them on a 12 plus hour flight with no access to distractions: cellphone, Ipad, etc?
How about a week long vacation with just you two in seclusion on a tropical island?
Are you choices today going to make you happy tomorrow & every day after that?
Author: DC
A walking contradiction... What you see isn’t what you get. To get to know the essence you need to open the book and read. An enigma; giving, selfless, conceited, arrogant, loner, author, friend, confidant, trainer, model, actor, and life coach. It really depends on your relationship with him. To someone who doesn’t know him or decides to judge the book by the cover; he is viewed as conceited, arrogant or even mean. Which is the exact opposite of who he is. He’s more of a shy introvert around those he doesn’t know or isn’t comfortable with. Get below the quiet exterior and you’ll find a heart that, to know is to love. He tries to live his life literally walking in love. He would give the shirt off his back to help. Raised by his mother, with no role model on what a man should be. He set out to be different than what he saw in the community. Men who abandoned their responsibilities to pursue whatever tickled their fancy was the norm. These men didn’t care about the damage caused by their selfish actions. He thought the road would be easy, but alas, it proved him wrong. Society had changed dramatically in a short time. People seemed to perceive his love as a weakness. Or perhaps they had not come across a person, who accepts them for them. Always waiting for the other shoe to drop, they tried to manipulate a gift to their advantage. Left alone most of the time, he started to set his pain to print. Never intending for anyone to read it. However, God had a different plan in mind. He would use DC’s pain to show the women; that there are men out there, who do feel profoundly deeper than they think. To reach out to the masses that don’t know how to get others to understand what they are dealing with or have dealt with. He simply wanted to help people on a larger scale.
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